When you tell someone ‘do not judge,’ you are being hypocritical.
First, you have to judge that they are being judgmental.
Second, you have to judge that what they are doing is wrong.
Thus, you have violated your own standard for not judging others.
Instead, understand the entire Bible’s teaching on judging so you can do as Jesus instructed.
“Do not judge according to appearances, but make a righteous judgment.
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What does the Bible mean that we are not to judge others? — “First take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” What Jesus was condemning was hypocritical, self-righteous judgments of others